In a deeply personal revelation that has reignited discussions about family dynamics and acceptance, Vivian Jenna Wilson, the estranged daughter of billionaire Elon Musk, has opened up about her father’s reaction to her coming out as transgender. In an interview with The Advocate on April 1, 2025, Vivian, who legally changed her name and gender in 2022, shared that Musk was “not as supportive as my mom,” highlighting the stark contrast between her parents’ responses to her identity and shedding light on the emotional challenges she faced during that pivotal moment in her life.
Vivian, 20, is one of six children Musk shares with his ex-wife, Justine Wilson, a Canadian author whom he divorced in 2008. Vivian’s decision to come out as transgender and change her name from Xavier Alexander Musk to Vivian Jenna Wilson was a public declaration of her desire to live authentically—and to distance herself from her father. In court documents filed in 2022, she stated, “I no longer live with or wish to be related to my biological father in any way, shape, or form,” a decision that came after years of tension with Musk, who has since made controversial statements about her transition.
In her interview with The Advocate, Vivian recounted the moment she came out to her parents at the age of 16. “I was nervous, but I knew I had to be honest about who I am,” she said. Her mother, Justine Wilson, responded with immediate support, embracing Vivian and affirming her identity. “My mom was amazing—she told me she loved me no matter what and that she’d always be there for me,” Vivian shared. “She helped me navigate everything, from therapy to starting my transition. I felt safe with her.”
Musk’s reaction, however, was markedly different. “He was not as supportive as my mom,” Vivian revealed, her voice tinged with disappointment. “He didn’t outright reject me, but he made it clear he didn’t understand, and he wasn’t really willing to try. He kept saying things like, ‘This is just a phase,’ or ‘You’ll grow out of it.’ It hurt because I needed him to see me for who I am.” Vivian noted that Musk’s response left her feeling isolated, a feeling that deepened over time as their relationship deteriorated.
Musk’s public comments in recent years have further strained their bond. In a 2024 interview with Jordan Peterson, Musk claimed he was “tricked” into signing documents for Vivian’s gender-affirming care, alleging that he was misled about the implications. He also referred to Vivian as “dead” to him, blaming her transition on “the woke mind virus.” These statements, which drew widespread backlash, have been particularly painful for Vivian. “Hearing him say those things in public was devastating,” she said. “It’s one thing to not understand, but to dismiss my existence like that—it’s something I’ll never forget.”
Vivian’s story has resonated deeply with the LGBTQ+ community and beyond, sparking conversations on X, where #VivianWilson is trending. “Vivian’s courage to speak out about her experience with Elon Musk is inspiring,” one user wrote. “It’s heartbreaking to see how he treated her.” Another added, “Justine Wilson sounds like an incredible mom—glad Vivian had her support.” The contrast between Musk’s and Wilson’s reactions underscores the importance of parental acceptance, a theme Vivian hopes her story will highlight. “I want other trans kids to know they deserve love and support,” she said. “If your family doesn’t give it to you, find people who will.”
As Vivian continues to live her truth, her revelation offers a poignant glimpse into the personal struggles behind Musk’s public persona. While Musk navigates his $44 billion financial crisis and his role in the Trump administration, Vivian’s words serve as a reminder of the human cost of his actions—and the power of a mother’s unconditional love in the face of adversity.
